Support, plainly.
Quick answers below. In the app, tap Help at the bottom to ask Tiff Bot. Stuck? Email hello@tifflog.ai: a real person reads every message.
In danger or being hurt? Tiff Log can't help with that. Call the police or your local emergency number first, then a free helpline: findahelpline.com (175+ countries).
the basics
what's Tiff Log?
A private log for the little fights with your people. Spill it, see their side, get advice, make up faster, and spot the pattern before round 2. Codenames only, encrypted on your phone.
what's a tiff?
A small, everyday squabble: the dishes, a late reply, whose turn it was. Not abuse, threats or anything dangerous. For those, call the police or your local emergency number first.
what's the Us-o-meter?
How well you make up, out of 100. Not about who wins. It's mostly about closing the loop (making up beats cooling off beats sweeping it under the rug), plus being fair to their side, making up sooner, and fewer repeats. Tap "how it works โบ" next to it for the full recipe.
is it free?
Yes, free today. AI features have fair-use limits so it stays that way.
privacy & trust
can humans read my tiffs?
No. What you write is encrypted on your phone with a key only you have, so our team can't read it, and neither can our database host. We only see tap-to-pick labels (topic, moods, dates) for stats, and whatever you choose to email us. AI answers are made on request and never used for training.
is my data confidential?
Everything you write is encrypted on your phone before it leaves it. We can't read it. Only tap-to-pick labels (topic, moods, dates) are readable, for stats. No ads, no selling data, and we don't use it to train AI.
does AI read my tiffs?
Only when you tap an AI feature (Ask Squad, Their POV, Bridge Out, Say sorry). Just the text for that one answer is sent, it isn't stored by us, and it's never used to train AI. Private AI (no outside AI at all) is coming soon.
will they know I logged it?
No. They don't need the app and won't know, unless you tap ASK THEM on a tiff to get their side. Then they only see what you choose to send. Unlink anyone from their page in Your people.
using it
how do I log a tiff?
Tap ๏ผ at the bottom. Pick who it was with, say what happened (typing or a screenshot), pick how you both felt, when it happened, then check what each of you said. We name it for you. Takes about a minute.
how do I mark it made up?
Open the tiff (tap FIX IT on Home) and tap WE MADE UP at the bottom, then pick how you fixed it. That teaches Tiff Log what works with that person and lifts your Us-o-meter.
get their side of a tiff?
Yes, one tiff at a time. Open a tiff and tap ASK THEM ("Get their side"). You write a short summary; they see only the name, the topic, that summary and, if you choose, how you felt. Never your rant. They answer from a link (if they're new, the tiff is waiting when they sign up), and you see what they really felt next to what you guessed. Tap made up together for "made up for real".
what is Ask Squad?
Advice from a squad of pixel characters (Bestie, Nani, Gym Bro, Stoic, Doggo, Soft Therapist, Rom-Com Lead, Courtroom Judge, Alien Anthropologist, Astro Girlie). Same sound advice, ten different voices (the astrology is just for fun). Open a tiff, tap Ask Squad, tap a character to hear their take. ๐ the ones that help: Tiff Log remembers who you trust with each person.
ask a real friend?
In Ask Squad, tap PICK A FRIEND. Write a short summary (your rant stays on your phone) and send the link to one friend. They answer on tifflog.ai, no app or account needed, and their take shows up with the squad's. Only you can read it.
Bridge Out vs Say sorry?
Bridge Out turns your rant into a no-blame text to reach out first, without apologising. Say sorry is when you want to own your part: a sorry text or a cute coupon card. Both are on every tiff. Edit the words so they sound like you.
what are rules?
Little deals so the same tiff doesn't come back ("whoever cooks, the other does the dishes"). Make one from any tiff. When a new tiff about the same thing shows up, we ask if the rule broke, and track how long rules hold.
account & safety
new phone?
Sign in with your email code, then enter your secret key. If the key is lost too, your old tiffs can't be opened by anyone (not even us), so you can tap "Lost it? Start fresh" for a new, empty Tiff Log.
what's my secret key?
The only spare key to your encrypted tiffs. You need it to sign in on a new phone. Keep it in Notes or a password manager. Lost it? Make a new one in Me โ privacy โ Secret key (while you still have this phone).
delete my account
Me โ danger_zone โ DELETE EVERYTHING. It removes your account, tiffs, people and encryption key. It can't be undone, so export first if you want a copy.
is this therapy?
Nope. It's a self-reflection tool for small tiffs, with fun, AI-written ideas, not professional advice. For anything heavier, a real therapist is the move (EXPORT PDF in Me makes a calm summary to bring along). In danger? Call the police first.